Part III: The Birth of Her Power

In Part II we were introduced to Vixen as the archetype Female Dominant. We learned that she is a rare breed of woman in that she deals exclusively in the realm of Obsession and that her limitless Power constitutes a sublime mystery owing to the bizarre and, as far as we know, unique appearance of an anomaly in nature with respect to the display and wielding of that Power in and around events and especially where her encounter with Male is concerned. With the appearance of the anomaly, her weakness is transformed into strength, her beauty into destructive force, and her softness into pure potentiality for the consummate execution of extreme brutality; brutality which she administers with impunity. To grasp all that lies at the root of this marvelous reversal of roles requires more than a casual perusal of surface appearances. As stated in our introduction, the detailed study of Female Domination, by its very complexity and fascination, must be a rather lengthy one. But I am convinced that we will discover it to be well worth the effort if we persevere with intelligence and enthusiasm. Who knows? With a little good fortune along the way we may even be able to shed some entirely new light on the miraculous existence of Vixen and the enigmatic phenomenon of her extraordinary power.

Having now learned something about who Vixen is, we must now back up a bit and investigate Vixen’s beginnings. How does it start? Where and when does the awareness of her true identity become known to her? Surely this revelation must be among the most exciting and compelling developments of self-actualization in the life of any human being. And for us, The Obsessed, it is thought of as a moment of sheer magic. Let us move forward, then, and take a look at Vixen’s beginnings with ‘The Birth of Her Power.’

The Awakening.
This phase constitutes the birth of the dominatrix. Dominant women acquire their tastes for power at different times and in different ways. But regardless of the particulars, there is always a pattern of emerging awareness with regard to certain capabilities that become available to them based on the display of their bodies. A teen-age girl stands before the mirror in her bedroom, admiring her naked body. Her hot, nubile rack is a fairly new development, but that ass and those legs have been evolving toward this state of perfection for some time. She looks at herself from every angle, smiling proudly. Something new is happening within her, something exciting. She may not define it at this point, she may, in fact be quite unsure as to where it is leading. But she knows that whatever it is, it is good. Suddenly her body is ‘there.’ It’s hot and she knows it’s hot. She takes mental notes as to how she compares to Monica, Susie, Charis, and Jenny Li. They too have all been called ‘hot,’ but she knows now that she burns them all down. Seems like it just happened, right now, this morning, like she wasn’t this perfect yesterday morning. But she’s got it now, and that’s all that matters.

The Awakening phase is also signaled by a radical change in wardrobe. Our neophyte Vixen immediately begins to require far less bodily coverage than she had in the past. Tops get skimpier and thinner. She perfects the appearance of her developing bust line by rigorous experimentation with bras until she achieves the look she wants. Shorts get shorter, heels get higher, make-up gets trashier, parents become enraged. She will usually become more outgoing during this time, happy to flaunt her new found confidence. Those around her notice that she is becoming more demanding. She has the feeling she deserves the fulfillment of her desires. At this point, it seems as if all she wants to do is to scandalize with her delicious new body and attitude.

Discovery and Development
This is an exciting period. Everything is new, and a girl begins to see the effect, the impact she is making on the world around her. She begins to sense the potential that she has for controlling events with her body and her attitude. The results are almost immediate. She moves into an entirely new world; from anonymity to ‘force to be reckoned with.’ For most dominant girls this phase is accomplished in no more than one school term, usually far less, in as little as two or three months.

During this period, the young dominatrix is receiving valuable input from all quarters. From peer interaction she is learning general consensus as to what is ‘hot.’ She becomes aware of all vital sources of media, such as TV shows, music, videos, movies, everything a girl must be familiar with in order to be cool. But most importantly, she is learning to assimilate all this information in the service of her supreme power. She will quickly ascertain which dresses, which footwear, which poses, which body parts, which smiles, which phrases, and which attitudes best serve her purposes, not only with the boys, but with the world at large. As this period of discovery continues, at some point our newborn Vixen will have a kind of epiphany, that moment when it all ‘locks in.’ She may be as young as 14 or 15 in some cases, but usually it will occur around the age of 17 or 18. But regardless of age, from that moment forward, she is in charge. She knows she can have whatever she wants, whenever she wants. As long as there are men in the world, she will be fully satiated.

The Engagement
The transitional, or Engagement phase is that period of maturation that bridges adolescence and adulthood. I use the term ‘Engagement’ to denote that time when Vixen reaches full clarity. She sees the world for exactly what it is and she ‘engages’ it with all the tools she has developed and all the power she has accumulated during the periods of Discovery and Development. She knows who she is and makes the existential choice that it is that woman who shall be known to the world. With The Engagement, Vixen has arrived. This phase is typically accompanied by other signs of adulthood and maturity. A woman finds her body softening ever so slightly, now having the tendency to retain body fat a bit more easily than when she was a teen. This is in no way a bad thing. In fact, Vixen will find men even more susceptible to the lure of her flesh than they had been in the past. She also learns how to use this, like everything else, to her best advantage. She learns that the slight jiggling of her arms, the quivering bounce of her ass and thigh flesh, all these effects of getting older have in fact made her all that much more desirable, and as a result, all the more powerful. As with everything else, she uses it to her advantage. At this point in her development she will begin to feel her first real sense of omnipotence. The idea that she is a goddess is not simply metaphorical any more. It is the blossoming of true identity within her. Her physical flesh as absolute divinity incarnate becomes her central mode of self-perception. She knows herself to be divine. In the eyes of the world, she is only a young woman, but behind the sociological veil, she is already perfect. At this point also, her mastery over men is so complete it becomes laughable. With a simple look, a shift of the body, the slight flicker of tempting fat of her upper thigh, she can command a man to lay down his own life. Her power continues to grow ever stronger as she uses it to create the world in her own image.

Join me for Part IV: Vixen’s Subject: A Brief Overview of Obsession.