Introduction: The Grand Obsession

THIS is Girls In Control, the most comprehensive discussion ever attempted on the phenomenon of Female Domination in particular and the obsession with beautiful, powerful women in general. It must be stated from the outset that this is not your typical porn blog. Here, you will find very little in the way of site referrals, porn picks, etc. I do, however, believe firmly in supplementing your reading with lots of eye candy, so you will never be at a loss for sizzling photos. But, in the main, this is a site for those with an intellectual curiosity about all that lies at the root of their infatuation with powerful women. It will also be of great interest to those who may not consider themselves truly masochistic in orientation, but who do consider themselves generally submissive in their attitude toward the gorgeous sex, and are able to recognize the fact that beautiful women are indeed the driving forces in their lives. In a word, it is about obsession.

All of us who live the life of obsession come to a point along the journey at which we realize that the issue of who we are has been settled, but that the underlying dynamics of the life we choose and love remain shrouded in mystery, confusion, and controversy. It is here that we may begin to move from a simple but usually secret enjoyment of our passion to a more active interest, which includes deeper investigation and research. We discover, however, to our great disappointment, that Cultural discourse on the subject inevitably treats not only our attitudes on women and sex, but our consequent attitudes about the larger view of life itself as something aberrant, shameful, and in the end, inimical to any normal sense of development and even to the very pursuit of happiness. Obsessions such as ours, it will say, are the province of incorrigible libertines, those without any sense of morality, who, in the words of Paul the Apostle, ‘have given themselves over to a reprobate mind.’ It appears that the social spectrum of those who would condemn our grand obsession is wide indeed! From the far right conservative Christian base, all the way to the far left where we may be considered relatively harmless but in need of therapy nonetheless, it is glaringly apparent that mainstream opinion of serious Female Domination, and sexual obsession in general, has completely failed to make any serious efforts toward understanding the phenomena it so ardently renounces. And it is precisely because we still live in a world that is so un-evolved that mainstream opinion remains the barometer for all that is ‘normal,’ that a true philosophy of FemDom is such a timely necessity.

Here you will find a completely unique study, the kind of study that seeks openness to real growth; growth not only for those of us who already understand in part and seek to understand more, but for those without a clue as to the true nature of sexual obsession, which is nothing more or less than the true nature of sexuality itself. Our inquiry will demonstrate the fact that the life of obsession IS the grand vision of life on Planet Earth, the only philosophy that clears a pathway through the dense thicket of ignorance, prejudice, and resistance to change that are the defining features of our culture, enabling us, finally, to achieve the highest levels of self-actualization and to realize our deeper purpose as divine citizens of an extraordinary and ultimately benevolent universe. Of necessity, we have become the keepers of the eternal flame.

Next Post: Part I. The Phenomenon of Power